BDSM play is an exciting bedtime routine that allows you to experience an incredible erotic sensation. It is also one of the best ways to connect with your partner. That’s why many people enjoy doing BDSM activities.

If you want to explore the world of BDSM play, using BDSM gear can intensify your experience. But before using these kinky sex toys, having an in-depth knowledge of how to use them is necessary. It is also crucial to introduce them first to your partner.

To help you begin your BDSM journey, this ultimate guide to BDSM sex toys will help you get started.

BDSM Toys for beginners

Any sex toys or equipment that is used for BDSM activities is referred to as BDSM toys. These toys can help you achieve a kinkier and more satisfying BDSM scene.

BDSM sex toys for beginners are categorised into 2 types, these are restraints and stimulators.

Restraints

These toys are specifically designed to restrain a partner and make them helpless. Listed below are some restraints that are commonly used during BDSM play.

• Handcuffs – These toys can be used to restrain your partner’s wrists or ankles during sex play. Most handcuffs are covered with soft material to prevent chafing.
• Blindfolds – This is a piece of fabric that is worn around the head and placed over the eyes. Blindfolds are used during sex play to block one’s sight to amplify other senses such as taste, smell, touch and hearing.
• Ball Gags – This is a beginner-friendly BDSM toy. Using this toy will allow you to eliminate your lover’s ability to speak.
• Bondage tape – This unique tape doesn’t stick to anything but only to itself. That’s why you can safely use this tape to restrain your partner during a BDSM scene.
• Spreader bar – This BDSM toy is used to spread and hold your partner’s arms or legs apart. This sex toy is often made of plastic, wood or metal. Some spreader bar comes with built-in or detachable cuffs on each end.

Stimulators

These toys are designed to tease or inflict pain on your partner. Some of the stimulators used for BDSM scenes are the following:

• Whips - These are thin and long leather toys used to inflict pain/pleasure on a partner.
• Paddles – These sex toys have a handle and two flat sides like a ping-pong paddle. They are usually made of leather or wood. It is used to give a light or heavy spank.
• Floggers – These are sex toys with multiple tails attached to a firm handle. The flogger’s tails are often made from horsehair, leather or rubber. This toy can be used to hit or strike a partner.
• Nipple clamps - These BDSM toys increase arousal. It squeezes the erect nipples to restrict the blood flow. This will increase the nipples’ sensitivity.

How to introduce BDSM toys into your relationship

Communicate with your partner

To make BDSM adventure safe and enjoyable, honest communication with your partner is necessary. Take time to reflect on your own sexual needs and desires. You also have to decide which sex toy you want to try. Then share this information with your lover before your BDSM play.

Trust your partner

Aside from communication, you have to give your full trust to your partner in order to experience a fulfilling BDSM play. This will also let you enjoy your kinky play without worrying about your safety.

Take time to research

If you want to explore BDSM play using sex toys, then you have to spend time researching the appropriate toy you’re going to use. For instance, if you want to use a flogger, then you must know how to spank your partner and what areas of their body are safe to hit.

Safety tips when using BDSM toys

• Discuss your limits or boundaries before the BDSM play begins.
• Assign a “safe word”. These are random words that can be used to stop your lover from doing a certain act.
• Prepare a “first aid kit”. This kit should include lubricant, dressing scissors to cut fabric cuffs, if necessary and a spare key (if you’re using metal handcuffs).
• Before using BDSM sex toys, test them first to yourself to feel the sensation. This will also allow you to familiarise the toy and learn how to use them properly.
• If you want to restrain your lover, leave at least a one-finger gap between the restrain and your partner’s skin. This is to avoid chafing and other injuries.

Why should you choose The Sex Garden’s Bondage and Fetish Gears?

• Made from high-quality materials

The Sex Garden prioritised the safety of its customers. That’s why their bondage and fetish gears are made from premium materials. They also came from well-known brands.

• Affordable

If you’re looking for BDSM toys at a reasonable price, The Sex Garden is the best place to shop! Their fetish toys will surely bring you to a whole new world of BDSM fun without breaking the bank.

• A vast range of options

The Sex Garden offers a broad range of BDSM sex toys. With that, you will definitely get the one suited to your preferences.

What’s next?

Bondage and fetish gears are designed to enhance your BDSM experience and not to cause harm. To ensure your safety, take time to research before using any BDSM toys. There’s a lot of online information that will guide you on how to use these toys.

If you want to try BDSM sex toys on your next kinky play, feel free to browse a trusted online adult toy shop. They offer high-quality bondage and fetish gear that provide great experience and satisfaction. They also supply other adult toys for all your sexual needs and desires.